Parenting blog : Contemplation

 In this pandemic, school has been closed, children are spending their whole time at home, no school, no malls, no parks, no visit to any ones house. They are getting bored and spending most of their time in front if tv, mobile, ipad etc. So i am going to tell you some activities, that will keep your child away from screens, so lets go through it- 1) Colouring- colouring is very good activity for kids. It provides opportunity to practice and develop many skills such as concentration, fine motor skill, coordination for early writing skill and correct finger grip. 2) Block games- block games help to learn about shapes, size,  texture, structure. It develops new ideas in kids and improve their decision making, it develops their fine and gross motor skills. 3) Jenga-   jenga helps in hand eye coordination and strategic thinking as well as developing problem solving capability, improves fine motor skill and social skills. Jenga comes with various colours and tasks, it helps kids to have in

  We all have the nature, to easily get upset from what others say to us, what others feel for us, how others behave with us. Our life is run by others not by us, our life is affected from them. They are the remote control of our life. This is the thing where we go wrong to our life. This is our life not others, we and only we have the right to run it as we want. Sometimes we had a fight from others, that fight continues for 5 min but it remains in our mind for many days. Why they say this to me, what i have done, why he behave so badly with me,  did he feel this for me. That fight is just for 5 min and when we meet them next time, they behave with us as if nothing happens but we keep this in mind for long. This creates a mental distress in our mind and severly affect our health. This is a slow process, we dont see it in the beginning but after long time by continue thinking about the negativities , about the wrong what others did to us, damage our mind and lead us to a severe health p

 We all know that child's heart is very soft, they learn by seeing their parents, their family members. If the environment of house is good then this will create a good impact on child's mind. A child which has good environment, positive vipes around them are more developed, more confident than the child which has bad environment, negative vipes around them.    . Lack of self confidence- if the child see their parents fighting with each other, shouting all the time, arguing in every matter, then this will not be good for the child development, this will make him dull, he will loose his confidence in him, he will also seem to b frighten with everything, they may start over eating or less eating this will create many health issue. . Wrong problem solving technique-  They learn from you. By seeing you fighting all the time makes them to feel that , this is the only way to solve any problem. They too began to solve every problem in life by arguing, shouting or fighting. Sit and ta

Having a child is the best thing happened to any mother. We love to live each and every moment of our child. We love to see them laughing,turning, sitting, crawling, standing, walking etc, this little phase of their lifes make us to create our best memories but our responsibilites increases with their growth. When our child starts crawling then we cant even take our eye from them for a single moment. If we live them alone it make be possible that they can hurt themselves. So we should keep some things away from their reach, so that they wont hurt themselves. These are some items which you should keep out of reach of your child: Hot stuffs should be kept out of reach from them, so that they wont burn themselves. Small or tiny objects should be kept away from them otherwise they may put them in their mouth. Sharp edge furniture should turned to round edge because it may hurt them or hurt their eyes. Medicines should be kept away from their reach, they may eat the medicine and it will be

Now a days, almost every parents of 8 to 20 year old child had the issue that their kids are not listening to them, they are not behaving properly, they are ignoring them, they are becoming so much irritated, they dont want to spend time with them, they are not as before. So where's the problem? They are going to physical, mental and harmonal change in their life, so we should support them. It is hard i know but the thing is that " we should change our nature not them". By changing our nature we will see a sudden change in their nature also.  We shout in every little mistakes they make, we punish them for little to big things, we demand 1st position from them, we just think by ourselves that they should lead in every aspects either in study, games, interviews, jobs, we compare them with every single person who has done something good. WHY............? that's the reason, we should change. If you will shout on them in every little mistakes, they will be frighten to tell

Our child ask a lot of questions to us everyday and what we do is answer them immediately rather making them to think and get the answer of their question by their own.   They say" i m hungry" We give them food to eat. They say " i dont found my books" We search and give them They say " i dont know how to do a thing" We immediately do that for them.           These all things will not help our children. We want our child to be independent, innovative and by solving their problems makes them dependent and dumb, they will not be able to use their own mind to take any decision.  For ex: if they create a mess rather than cleaning the mess immediately, let him think to clean it, if he dont think of cleaning the mess ask him questions like how to clean the mess, where is the rag kept. At first time your child will not be able to get you, but when you keep this how, when, where questions on habbit, it will make your child to think about it and solve their problem

  As we know that in this corona pandemic, lockdown is there in whole country, social distancing is very important for us, people having fear in going out, going to restaurant, or anyones house. So cant celebrate your kids birthday in such a pandemic, so are you going to make their birthday a boring day..?  NO, not at all. Birthday's are the day your children are eagerly waiting for. They go to school, meet their friends, everyone in school wishes them happy birthday, they distrubute chocolates on school, they invite all their friends on birthday party, wear their best dress and cut cake, play with friends, get lots of gifts, they feel very special on their birthday, So we cant let this day to pass without any enjoyment. My child's birthday is on 21st august and i will not let this day pass as the regular one, i will plan every thing to make him happy.. yaa cant take him to mall, cant make his friends come home, cant let him to have his favorite ride, cant take him out for dinn

Newly married couples spend lots of time alone with each other but as the time passes they started spending less time because of their responsibilities. As they become parents very less time alone is spend by them. This lack of communication increases misunderstanding and many divorce cases.       Before there were no electronic devices, husband and wife spend lot of time together,but now due to this new electronic devices like television, mobile, ipad, iphone etc people spend their most of time on those devices rather than with each other. When  they go out to restaurant for dinner, they talk less and take pictures of the food they order and spend time in posting them on social media and looking for the likes and comments.         After having a long day work and hectic schedule, husbands become tired and they just want a nice dinner and want to watch tv or just relax. Wife too because of the household work, children responsibilities got tired and just want to sleep on time, to get up

Are your toddler not eating vegetables? Are you also tensed by toddler tantrums? Do you find veggies out of their plates everytime? Have you tried everything to make them to eat?  So first thing you have to find is that why they are not eating veggies, whats the reason behind it:  Doctor tell us to introduce food to our kids after 6 months, we make food for them differ from what we cook for us. So when we introduce veggies to them, they have the fear of new or unknown food, so they dont even want to taste it. Some toddler feels that vegetables are bitter in taste, so they dont want to eat it, bitter taste are undesirable. Some toddlers are confused regarding the sour taste, but you dont have to worry for that, pediatricians says that our taste changes when we grow, so some veggies which we dont like as toddler, can love to eat when we grow young. Veggies dont look interesting to them. Toddlers eyes are attracted towards colourful things, or things which has interesting shapes. How to t