What is the impact of parents argument in child's life

 We all know that child's heart is very soft, they learn by seeing their parents, their family members. If the environment of house is good then this will create a good impact on child's mind. A child which has good environment, positive vipes around them are more developed, more confident than the child which has bad environment, negative vipes around them.

   . Lack of self confidence- if the child see their parents fighting with each other, shouting all the time, arguing in every matter, then this will not be good for the child development, this will make him dull, he will loose his confidence in him, he will also seem to b frighten with everything, they may start over eating or less eating this will create many health issue.

. Wrong problem solving technique- They learn from you. By seeing you fighting all the time makes them to feel that , this is the only way to solve any problem. They too began to solve every problem in life by arguing, shouting or fighting. Sit and talk, dont run away with your problems just by fighting.

  .lack of concentration- By seeing the arguments they feel like their parents dont love each other, they dont love him. This begans to create a feeling of loneliness on them. They dont like to be at home, they cant concentrate on their studies, this will affect their future.

. Aggression- These arguments make them irritated, mannerless, they too began to shout for silly things because these are what they are learning from their parents only. They will also get afraid of loosing their parents, they may get frighten from you and scared to talk to you freely.

. Failure in relationship- They began to run from any relationship in their life. This can worst our child relationship with their partner in future. They will not trust any relations. Dont set the worst example of husband-wife relationship for your children.

.wrong judgement- We should never fight or shout in front of them, shouting or fighting make him to judge among their parents and they will lose respect for their parents. Their little mind will began to have a lifetime set that their mom is wrong or their dad is wrong and mostly dad suffers alot in that case. Their own child began to think that he is a wrong person, he dont love his family. Because mom can cry but we cant see our dad tears.

Every married couples fight, this are natural but not for our child, they cant see their parents fighting. We should control our anger, our frustation in front of our children. Whatever is the matter but dont spoil the image of your spouse in front of your children. You have given birth to them, to make them to live a very happy life not to live a life in fear. So always smile in front of your child leaving behind your arguments.


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