Parenting blog : Contemplation

 In this pandemic, school has been closed, children are spending their whole time at home, no school, no malls, no parks, no visit to any ones house. They are getting bored and spending most of their time in front if tv, mobile, ipad etc. So i am going to tell you some activities, that will keep your child away from screens, so lets go through it- 1) Colouring- colouring is very good activity for kids. It provides opportunity to practice and develop many skills such as concentration, fine motor skill, coordination for early writing skill and correct finger grip. 2) Block games- block games help to learn about shapes, size,  texture, structure. It develops new ideas in kids and improve their decision making, it develops their fine and gross motor skills. 3) Jenga-   jenga helps in hand eye coordination and strategic thinking as well as developing problem solving capability, improves fine motor skill and social skills. Jenga comes with various colours and tasks, it helps kids to have in

  We all have the nature, to easily get upset from what others say to us, what others feel for us, how others behave with us. Our life is run by others not by us, our life is affected from them. They are the remote control of our life. This is the thing where we go wrong to our life. This is our life not others, we and only we have the right to run it as we want. Sometimes we had a fight from others, that fight continues for 5 min but it remains in our mind for many days. Why they say this to me, what i have done, why he behave so badly with me,  did he feel this for me. That fight is just for 5 min and when we meet them next time, they behave with us as if nothing happens but we keep this in mind for long. This creates a mental distress in our mind and severly affect our health. This is a slow process, we dont see it in the beginning but after long time by continue thinking about the negativities , about the wrong what others did to us, damage our mind and lead us to a severe health p

 We all know that child's heart is very soft, they learn by seeing their parents, their family members. If the environment of house is good then this will create a good impact on child's mind. A child which has good environment, positive vipes around them are more developed, more confident than the child which has bad environment, negative vipes around them.    . Lack of self confidence- if the child see their parents fighting with each other, shouting all the time, arguing in every matter, then this will not be good for the child development, this will make him dull, he will loose his confidence in him, he will also seem to b frighten with everything, they may start over eating or less eating this will create many health issue. . Wrong problem solving technique-  They learn from you. By seeing you fighting all the time makes them to feel that , this is the only way to solve any problem. They too began to solve every problem in life by arguing, shouting or fighting. Sit and ta

Having a child is the best thing happened to any mother. We love to live each and every moment of our child. We love to see them laughing,turning, sitting, crawling, standing, walking etc, this little phase of their lifes make us to create our best memories but our responsibilites increases with their growth. When our child starts crawling then we cant even take our eye from them for a single moment. If we live them alone it make be possible that they can hurt themselves. So we should keep some things away from their reach, so that they wont hurt themselves. These are some items which you should keep out of reach of your child: Hot stuffs should be kept out of reach from them, so that they wont burn themselves. Small or tiny objects should be kept away from them otherwise they may put them in their mouth. Sharp edge furniture should turned to round edge because it may hurt them or hurt their eyes. Medicines should be kept away from their reach, they may eat the medicine and it will be