Parenting blog : Contemplation

Now a days, almost every parents of 8 to 20 year old child had the issue that their kids are not listening to them, they are not behaving properly, they are ignoring them, they are becoming so much irritated, they dont want to spend time with them, they are not as before. So where's the problem? They are going to physical, mental and harmonal change in their life, so we should support them. It is hard i know but the thing is that " we should change our nature not them". By changing our nature we will see a sudden change in their nature also.  We shout in every little mistakes they make, we punish them for little to big things, we demand 1st position from them, we just think by ourselves that they should lead in every aspects either in study, games, interviews, jobs, we compare them with every single person who has done something good. WHY............? that's the reason, we should change. If you will shout on them in every little mistakes, they will be frighten to tell...

Our child ask a lot of questions to us everyday and what we do is answer them immediately rather making them to think and get the answer of their question by their own.   They say" i m hungry" We give them food to eat. They say " i dont found my books" We search and give them They say " i dont know how to do a thing" We immediately do that for them.           These all things will not help our children. We want our child to be independent, innovative and by solving their problems makes them dependent and dumb, they will not be able to use their own mind to take any decision.  For ex: if they create a mess rather than cleaning the mess immediately, let him think to clean it, if he dont think of cleaning the mess ask him questions like how to clean the mess, where is the rag kept. At first time your child will not be able to get you, but when you keep this how, when, where questions on habbit, it will make your child to think about it and solve their pro...

  As we know that in this corona pandemic, lockdown is there in whole country, social distancing is very important for us, people having fear in going out, going to restaurant, or anyones house. So cant celebrate your kids birthday in such a pandemic, so are you going to make their birthday a boring day..?  NO, not at all. Birthday's are the day your children are eagerly waiting for. They go to school, meet their friends, everyone in school wishes them happy birthday, they distrubute chocolates on school, they invite all their friends on birthday party, wear their best dress and cut cake, play with friends, get lots of gifts, they feel very special on their birthday, So we cant let this day to pass without any enjoyment. My child's birthday is on 21st august and i will not let this day pass as the regular one, i will plan every thing to make him happy.. yaa cant take him to mall, cant make his friends come home, cant let him to have his favorite ride, cant take him out for din...

Newly married couples spend lots of time alone with each other but as the time passes they started spending less time because of their responsibilities. As they become parents very less time alone is spend by them. This lack of communication increases misunderstanding and many divorce cases.       Before there were no electronic devices, husband and wife spend lot of time together,but now due to this new electronic devices like television, mobile, ipad, iphone etc people spend their most of time on those devices rather than with each other. When  they go out to restaurant for dinner, they talk less and take pictures of the food they order and spend time in posting them on social media and looking for the likes and comments.         After having a long day work and hectic schedule, husbands become tired and they just want a nice dinner and want to watch tv or just relax. Wife too because of the household work, children responsibilities got tired an...